What is happening to
my career?

If you’ve left work and couldn’t explain why you felt so empty… this is for you

If you’ve started dreading Mondays by Sunday afternoon… this is for you

If you’re successful on paper and miserable in practice… this is for you

If you got passed over and nobody could tell you why… this is for you

When you are crystal clear on who you are, the systems keeping you down lose their power

Not sure what to do next?
I built a free assessment to help you figure out where you actually stand.



Rediscover your edge

You don’t need another resume rewrite or motivational speaker telling you to just put your best foot forward after pulling yourself up from your bootstraps. You need someone who understands the system you’re stuck inside of, can help you stabilize the current chaos, while helping you figure out who you actually are underneath the role you’ve been performing.

Getting Started Experience

3 - 4 Sessions

One focused goal:
figure out what’s actually true about you

Together, we go beneath the surface, past the job titles, past the resume, and past what you’ve been told to value. We excavate the real patterns. We explore what consistently energized you across your career and your life. We look at what’s depleted you. What you’ve been tolerating that you shouldn’t be. And the values you’ve been living by versus the ones you’ve been forced to abandon.

And throughout the process, we stabilize what’s happening right now in your current environment, the situations draining you, and the decisions that can’t wait. This work doesn’t ask you to ignore the fires, we’ll handle both at the same time.

This is not a personality test. This is not a pep talk. This is the work most people have never been given the space to do.

$750

YOU WALK AWAY WITH

Your top values identified and rated against how closely you’re living them

A map of what has activated and depleted you across your entire career

Your non-negotiables and red flags, the things you’ve been tolerating that are incompatible with who you are

A Career in Context map. How your whole life system shapes what’s possible

Ongoing stabilization of your current work situation while the deeper work unfolds

The Getting Started Experience is designed to stand completely on its own. You might discover you want to go deeper. Your full $750 applies towards the Full Experience if you choose to continue.

The Full Experience

The Full Experience: $4,000 | your Getting Started investment applies in full

RJ Gazarek, MSW

Founder @ Innervates
15 years in tech - Clinical social work training

Who’s on the other side

I spent 15 years honing my marketing career, navigating the reorgs, the politics, the broken systems, and the leaders who were never given the tools to lead. I climbed to a director-level role, served as an active interim VP co-running a global product marketing department… and burned out in the process.

Along the way, I went back to school for my Masters in Social Work, not to leave tech, but to understand what the corporate world refuses to look at: how systems, power dynamics, and organizational design actually affect the people inside them.

The training gave me the tools most coaches and managers have never been exposed to… how to see the whole system, how to sit with someone in real complexity without flinching, and how to help people find clarity inside chaos. This isn’t therapy. it’s coaching built on a foundation most coaching doesn’t have.

I built Innervates because the people I kept meeting, smart, driven and successful on paper deserved better than a resume refresh and a pep talk. They deserved someone who understood the system they were stuck in and could help them find themselves inside it.


Innervates is a coaching practice, not a clinical or therapeutic service


WHAT PEOPLE SAY ABOUT WORKING WITH ME THROUGHOUT MY CAREER

His mentorship is highly practical, and his guidance on bringing one's unique identity to the fore front at work is something that I personally have never been coached on by anyone else.

He has an uncanny ability to zoom in, out, sideways, and backwards to examine problem spaces simultaneously from different perspectives.

RJ always looks for opportunities to coach and mentor others in the organization, whether they are people from other groups or interns on the team, and he’s a great teacher.


You’ve been asking “What the f*ck is happening” long enough.

Let’s find out - and then build something better together.

20 minutes. No pitch. Just an honest conversation about where you are.